There is no greater empty feeling then what you feel after getting dumped or rejected. It’s likely the driving force behind every relationship because neither person wants the trauma and drama of it.

Its something that you get over eventually. You basically stop thinking about the other person to the point of wondering what the big deal was all about. “What did I see in her anyway?!” It’s not mean spirited or hateful in anyway toward that person. It’s more questioning yourself. And it’s not a ‘fox and the grapes” ending were I end up justifying the fail with an excuse. In this case the grapes said “no” and that was that.

Leaving me wondering if I’ve got it all wrong.

Which is to say that the underachievers motto which goes “You can’t fail if you don’t try!” plays too much of a roll in my life. There are so many things that I run away from because of that.